A woman scorned!!

When i was a child my mother used to always quote the old saying "hell has no furry like a woman scorned" I thought it sounded good. It had a nice ring to it you know. However i never truly knew what it meant until after my first daughter's mother texted it to me!! Oh Lord God!!! I do understand now. I am now very vigilant about weeding out women scorned! For every man that hurts a woman, the next guy pays the price! Meet a woman that's been ran through the fields by a healthy share of bad boys, and you'll find HELL ON HEELS!!! After a serious emotional relationship is over we all need time to heel.Jump to quick into another relationship and that person pays the price and ends up the rebound guy/girl. Its human nature to protect ourselves. Hunters became better hunters by learning from their mistakes. A woman gets close to a guy, the guy hurts her. Basic survivor skill kicks in. The woman learns not to get close to the next guy! Simple effective! Can you blame them. Although the reality of the matter is you will never find true love, your mate, and have a meaningful relationship like this. You have to learn to give TRUE second chances. Let's say a woman gives a second chance to another guy, same thing happens that just makes the fact that she can't get close even more prominent! And so on and so on. SO.... like i said, you find a woman who has been dragged through the fields more then a few times, then you find yourself problems! Men need hiking boots and alot of rope to deal with these women! Their guards are super high and we have a high wall to climb! Without TRUST  there is no true relationship. It just doesn't work! But how do you get a woman to trust you who has trusted many and has been disappointed every time?  A LOT OF HARD WORK!

I'll be honest, sometimes is not even worth the work!! Its hard to knock someone who has a guard up because they have given trust time after time and have been let down. At the same time its hard for someone fresh and new to deal with someone who takes that experience out on them and they haven't even done anything wrong....YET LOL. WHAT DO WE DO!! FELLAS: I suggest we determine if the woman is worth the work! How do we do that? Remember my PROTO-TYPE post? If you haven't read it please do. If you have read it please re read to re freshen your mind. The main question..HOW CLOSE IS THIS WOMAN TO MY PROTO-TYPE? If this woman isn't even close to what your list of what your proto-type should be then bounce quick! Don't even waste time dealing with a woman with issues if she isn't close to what your looking for anyway. Mental Note: The prettier the girl, the more a man will tolerate!! I don't care what you say, a man is going to put up with more of a gorgeous woman's ISH then he will with an average or below average looking chicks! Now with certain men a model type is the average girl he's used to.In that case it don't matter how fine you are if you have alot of baggage to deal with...YOU GON! This is not the case for most men. I know I'm bouncing around a bit. Let me be more clear. MEN don't get caught up on a woman's looks to blind you! If you find yourself tolerating a lot of bs off of a woman and the only reason is because she so fine...WALK AWAY! Looks aren't enough to create or keep a healthy relationship. Hell  LOVE isn't even enough! There are more components that have to be there for everything to work.

NOW...let's say this girl is close to your proto-type ( remember every one's proto-type is different) She doesn't accuse you of cheating when you don't pick up your phone right away. She doesn't have to know who your with and where you are every second of everyday. That's control! In fact the only real problem you have with her is that you can't seem to get close to her heart! You guys have a ball when your out and communication is good. It's just in her heart, although she likes you and enjoys your company she's scared to give you all of her. THIS is a woman worth fighting for. This is where the hard work and the hiking boots and rope come into play. You have to show her that you are different then the other guys. There is so much we can discuss on this subject and i will elaborate later. For now i am going to keep it simple. There are two major top flight security of the world craig..secrets to break that high wall she has up, down! And its as simple as this...TIME and CONSISTINCY! If you consistently show your loyalty,your faithfulness,that you can be trusted. If you consistently prove her WRONG never let her down, are there for her when ever she needs you, in an elongated period of time, those walls will tumble and fall! A woman wants to love, wants to be loved already. She just wants to feel secure with the one she wants to give her heart too! Just know that when you do get her heart you know how to take care of it or you are going to ruin our good women! We already lack quality out here. Men, when you find quality, please know its worth and if your not truly ready for it, let it go with out running her through the fields and give a man who is not necessarily better then you just at a different level in his life and is ready to give her what she needs, a chance at LOVE!

Enough of my rantings for now! lol As always, happy hunting!
The love guru

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