There were numerous studies done to determine how long it takes for us humans to determine if we find someone attractive or not after seeing them for the first time. The answer they came up with is 3 SECONDS! Yep, that's it! A three second glance will give are conquest all they need to determine if they find us physically attractive. What does that mean to us? WE GOTTA GET IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME! So...lets start with hygiene. This is SO IMPORTANT. If your going out "fishing" make sure you have the proper bait. Start with A SHOWER! Some may think its common sense, but you will be surprised at how many people get this wrong. Just because you shower in the morning doesn't mean you can party in the club that same night with out freshening up! Make sure you take a FRESH shower before you go fishing for that mate. A good clean scented deodorant, and yes of course a nice fresh cologne. I never met a woman that didn't like a good smelling man! THIS IS KEY! Although some women are allergic to cologne. This we cannot perceive ahead of time so are hands are tied with these women at first. Major rule of thumb with cologne...LESS IS MORE! Don't drown yourself in it where everyone can smell you coming a mile away!
Next...women love a CLEAN SHAVING MAN! Please keep your nails clean and manageable, your hair cut, and shaved. No matter the hairstyle. If your rockin braids make sure they are done on the regular. Its not hot approaching a girl and you got the fuzzies! If your rockin a fro, natural keep it shaped and trimmed. Keep a fresh lining. If your of caucasian persuasion, same applies. Keep it cut trimmed. If mousse is your thing then mousse it out, spike it, what ever the fashion is own it! A clean shaved face is always hot. If your going for the 5 o clock rough around the edges look that's fine, but keep your scruffy beard even. keep it lined up so its not crawling down your neck.
Also CLOTHING! Ever hear the term "funky fresh dressed to impress ready to party"? Women LOVE a well dressed man. You can be fat with crazy swag based off your dress and proper hygiene. If your not fashionable consult a woman. Most male clothing stores i know have women sales persons, for good reason too! Ask them for help. They will keep you from embarrassment! This includes nice shoes! Women always look down at a mans feet. You would be surprised at how many women say they judge a guy solely by the shoes he has on. Are your shoes clean, old, busted? This is also very important!!
Finally ACCESSORIZE! Women love shiny things. A nice watch and a ring has never been to much. For the more fashionistic throw in a bracelet and a chain but don't over do it. Nothing to gaudy or flashy. Nothing to big unless your a pimp on the west side of chicago trying to recruit new horses for your track! Or your looking to attract gold diggers and video vixens! Again rule of thumb..LESS IS MORE! If you can adhere to these simple tips, this should get you more looks and further on your way in the right direction.
Stay tuned for my next post dealing with attracting the opposite sex using the emotional!! As always happy hunting!
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